Note to self: never bring a novel with the words "a marvelous, original mixture of eroticism and poetry" in tiny print on its front cover to a Christian meeting (regardless that "Swell" won the Greek National Book Award for best novel in 2007 and it's about a captain returning home after 12 years at sea). Was ragged about "eroticism" for 15 minutes. I just had to grin and bare it, oops, I meant, bear it.
Excerpt: While it is natural, in the midst of intense grief and loss, to blame both God and ourselves for terrible tragedies (God is punishing me for something I've done/God is punishing our nation for something we've done), these answers miss the mark.