Life is full of unexpected encounters. Had late lunch and tea with a friend, and bumped into another former colleague. Took the MRT home and helped an elderly lady who works for the Health Promotion Board find her way to Dhoby Ghaut station. In return, she gave me this book on "My journey to better health", which was part of a health-care campaign going on at Marina Bay Sands. How fun, how lovely and how real.
Long life is found in increasing four elements of resilience - physical, mental, emotional and social. So if you spend time today doing something that makes you happy, or that gets you physically active, or puts you in touch with someone you care about, or even tackle a tiny challenge, you will boost your resilience and live longer.
When still a child, make sure you read a lot of books. Spend more time doing this than anything else.
When an adult, try to read your own work as a stranger would read it, or even better, as an enemy would.
Don’t romanticise your ‘vocation’. You can either write good sentences or you can’t. There is no ‘writer’s lifestyle’. All that matters is what you leave on the page.
Avoid your weaknesses. But do this without telling yourself that the things you can’t do aren’t worth doing. Don’t mask self-doubt with contempt.
Leave a decent space of time between writing something and editing it.
Avoid cliques, gangs, groups. The presence of a crowd won’t make your writing any better than it is.
Work on a computer that is disconnected from the internet.
Protect the time and space in which you write. Keep everybody away from it, even the people who are most important to you.
Don’t confuse honours with achievement.
Tell the truth through whichever veil comes to hand — but tell it. Resign yourself to the lifelong sadness that comes from never being satisfied.
John 15:9-17 As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. These things I command you, so that you will love one another.
Jesus loves you, and He died to save you from the penalty of your sins. He wants you to be reconciled to Him. If you want to be reconciled to God, and begin an exciting relationship with Him, forgiven and free, all you have to do is to say this sinner's prayer with all of your heart.
"Heavenly Father, I come to you in prayer asking for the forgiveness of my sins. I confess with my mouth and believe with my heart that Jesus is your Son, and that he died on the Cross at Calvary that I might be forgiven and have Eternal Life in the Kingdom of Heaven. Father, I believe that Jesus rose from the dead and Jesus, I ask you right now to come in to my life and be my personal Lord and Savior. I repent of my sins and will worship you all the days of my life!. Because your word is truth, I confess with my mouth that I am born again and am cleansed by the blood of Jesus! In Jesus' name, Amen."
(If you said the sinner's prayer with all your heart, then praise the Lord as you have been saved and you are now a child of God! You have been adopted into His family. To grow in relationship with your Father God, and Christ Jesus your Saviour, find a Spirit-led church and join a community of believers so they can encourage you in your walk!)